Screw the stuffed hearts. Love your business, babe.

February.

It’s the second month of the year – and the first time for us to really reflect on how 2016 started. Of course, there is a mid-month celebration of love that either makes your heart ooze or reminds you it’s bruised.

This year, I encourage you to rework the ideas of reflection and love (sans feeling the need to find a new romantic partner):

How can you learn to love yourself even more right now?
What limiting beliefs or old stories are keeping you from valuing what you have to offer this world?
What can you change – immediately – to become the best version of yourself: in business, in life, and in partnerships?

I used the last month to reflect on my own business. As you’ve seen, I do a significant amount throughout the year, so I developed new offerings and put others to rest.

Funny, this revamping made me fall back in love obsession with entrepreneurs and women in business. So many souls are chasing dreams, brilliant ideas and innovative thoughts, and I want to be of service to as many as I can, which is why I’m doing things a bit different now.

My Get Real 6-week package is the longest amount of time anyone can work with me currently (remember: I announced the end of the 3-month coaching packages last year).

With weekly 1:1 calls and content tailored to you, it’s for those ready to move your business from whatever level it’s currently living to take up residence at the next.

We talk mindset, business strategy, visibility, vision and clarity.

This is for you if you give zero fucks what it takes to make entrepreneurship work. You’ll do it all (and then werk, girl). Find out more here.

But my newest offering is blowing my mind, people.

Blowing. My. Mind.

I toyed with and resisted the idea of email coaching before I took on trial clients. I wasn’t sure how it would work, if clients would see results without me busting their asses live on the phone, or if anyone would feel the value in an inbox full of genius.

Low and behold, the first people in the program have proven my doubts wrong.

They are self-motivated, kick-ass entrepreneurs who want business know-how and want to put it into practice IMMEDIATELY.

They’re hustlers, baby.

Enter Inbox Genius: a 30-day coaching package for my friends who are finally ready to use their big-time brains and kill it, slaughter it, MURDER it, in business.

It’s unlimited weekday action where business babes send me their biggest questions and I kick back responses then and there. No waiting for the next call or stumbling over words.

And it’s brilliant.

Find out more here.

Which leads to getting rid of my 1 hour calls. Personally, I felt that keeping these around while offering the  30-day Inbox Genius program seemed a bit silly. Because for less than you’d pay for one hour on the line, you can get unlimited email access to me for an entire month.

It was out of alignment with what I’m trying to create, so the 1 hour calls are finished.

How can you work with me right now, if you’ve been working on manifesting time together?

  1. 6-week 1:1 coaching for $5K.
  2. Inbox Genius for $750.

And, of course, the queen of manifesting is leaving her DIY programs – The Monday Mindset Mastermind and Manifest Now – up for you to grab anytime. They are my lowest price point packages and are flexible enough to do at your own pace.

Best for newbies and anyone who is already in business but feels stuck. They’re great resources to learn the tools you need to begin receiving from the Universe in a way that serves you.

Not only am I in love with these offerings, I’m falling even more in love with being a business coach. Working with more than 2,500 women over the last two years has been the best, most exhausting and exhilarating experience of my adult life.

Hit me up and let me know how you plan to focus on self-love and acceptance this month.

Screw the chocolates and stuffed hearts. It’s time to love yourself and your business this year.

Getting better is NOT pretty

Ever notice that people complain to others who can’t do anything to help them?

If work sucks, whining to your spouse doesn’t make sense.

If the kids are driving you nuts, venting to your hairdresser does nothing to improve it.

If you want a divorce, telling your colleagues at work is pointless.

But we do it – because it’s easier than facing shit head-on.

And then we can play victim, sit on our hands and cry about how unfair life is.

I get it. I used to live that way.

Taking responsibility for my life was a terrifying prospect. Especially since I pretty much hated nearly all of it.

After all, if I was solely in charge of what I had – and didn’t have – then that meant I’d have to do some serious work to get to HAPPY.

Daunting, to say the least.

But here’s the amazing thing…

Actions, thoughts, feelings, choices. We all have them. They’re collectively known as free will.

Once I accepted that life wasn’t playing against me, that I was not a victim, that I created everything I had and didn’t have? I became fucking unstoppable.

If I wanted money, I could have it.

The business? Booming.

The house? Bought.

The car? Paid in cash.

My soul mate? Manifested to a T – right down to his damn cleft chin.

See, life becomes a hella lot easier when you believe you create it. You don’t have to wait for what you want. You can just go get it.

Joe Vitale calls it ordering from the catalog of the Universe. Others refer to it under the umbrella of The Law of Attraction. No matter what you call it, it means you will find what you look for.

Most people do not want to feel like shit. They do not want to be broke, scared, alone, hungry, angry or full of shame.

But we get that way by mistakenly believing life is happening to us.

You want it all? Take responsibility for it all.

You took the job.

You didn’t say no.

You ignored your gut.

You gave up on your dream.

You chose to believe your ex.

You ate the crappy food.

You didn’t do it.

You decided to go it alone.

You trusted her.

It’s easier to blame circumstances, events and people.

It’s safer to NOT be in control and NOT get what you want. (Because if you are in control and you don’t get what you want, that might mean you… fffffffffffffffffffffffailed.)

Being a victim means you don’t have to work, think or do things differently. You just let shit happen to you and then point the finger.

The problem, of course, is it feels shitty.

Up the ante.

Which leads me to this moment.

Go look in the mirror and ask yourself what you want most in the whole world.

Could be something tangible, like money. Could be a feeling – safety, warmth, love.

Look at yourself and ask the fucking question out loud. “Becky, what do you want most?” (But don’t call yourself Becky, unless that’s your name too.) And then listen. REALLY listen.

What does your gut say? You’ll know when you hit on it because you’ll have goosebumps, or the little hairs on the back of your neck will stand on end, or maybe you’ll just have a sense of deep knowing inside that this thing is IT.

Go find out now and come back.

Seriously. Go. I’ll wait.

So, what did you find out?

Write that thing down on a sticky note and post it somewhere you will see it all day long.

Your assignment today is think about what you want in three ways:

  • why do you want that thing?
  • what will it bring you that you don’t have now?
  • who do you need to be to HAVE it?

Universal truths.

Believing you can have something is one of the most important parts of actually getting it. Now that you’ve identified what you REALLY want, do you believe you can have it?

Anyone can have anything (as long as they put in the work).

Mistakes and challenges are a necessary part of the process to getting the thing.

Humans learn best when it’s like a game – and when we’re out of our comfort zone. (Does going after this thing make you uncomfortable? Good.)

Successful people seek out the ugly. Because they inherently know…

…Getting better is NOT pretty.