The one business mistake you don’t even know you’re making

It’s damn hard to commit to things we fear. Things we’re not sure we can do well.

What if trying is just a huge waste of time, money and energy? What if someone doesn’t like it?

I’m not ready yet.

I’m not good enough.

What if I get haters?

Been there. Done that.

Trying to please everyone is the surest way to please no one. (It’s a cliché for a reason.) And in online business, people-pleasing actually keeps you invisible – and broke.

The one mistake women in online business often make without even knowing it? Censoring themselves for fear someone won’t like what they have to say.

You can’t attract clients or fans if you don’t mean what you say AND say what you think. People know when you’re holding back.

It’s normal to secretly want the world to adore you and your work. By nature, humans don’t go looking for haters. But trying to be perfect actually makes you dull.

We end up stifling our voice. 

What you need is the courage and motivation to throw away the excuses and believe in yourself.

And if you can’t do that on your own, maybe it’s a problem to throw money at. People don’t actually need coaches. They don’t need Nikes to run either. But somebody somewhere told us better arch support builds faster runners. And we believe.

The work you put in after you bought the sneakers matters more than the sneakers themselves. But they hold you accountable. They make you feel better, and create a sense of pride in your accomplishments.

Coaches are people’s Nikes. Because, hey, your ankles aren’t the only thing in need of support.

We get you results faster and more effectively. You become YOU, injected with your own personal brand of fuck yeah.

Because letting go of the self-sabotage, perfectionism, procrastination or anything else, amps you up.

Being who you are allows people to identify with your thoughts and feelings.

Saying what you think without worrying about anyone else’s opinion gives you impact – guts and substance, goddammit. And aren’t we all sitting around waiting for someone to tell us the truth?


Want to finally release your shackles and BE YOURSELF in life and business? Join us May 26-27 for our very FIRST virtual retreat. All you need is an internet connection and the willingness to break free. Want details? Get in touch here.

Win 30 minutes with a millionaire

I’m big on doing what no one else does.

From how I live to the way I do business, nothing is ordinary.

Today’s announcement is no exception.

So let’s get down to it…

Want to win 30 minutes with me?

I no longer offer 1:1 coaching. But for a limited time, you have a chance to win one of three 30-minute 1:1 sessions I’m giving away.

This opportunity is absolutely for those of you who said:

I need help getting focused.

I’ve finally decided my dreams are worth chasing.

I’m ready for the next step. Help me, Becky!

Get on it now.

But Becky, how do I win? 

I’m so glad you asked.

Here’s how it works:

1. Go here and purchase a T-shirt, tank or hoodie

2. When it arrives, put it on, then take a selfie and post it on Facebook and Instagram with the hashtag #bullshitslayer

3. That’s it. You’re automatically entered to win.

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If you already purchased our merchandise, just snap a selfie wearing it and follow the guidelines and you’re eligible to win.

Merchandise must be ordered by May 9th — the last day it is on sale. It will arrive within 10 days.

That means you have until roughly May 19th to grab a T, tank or hoodie and win $2500 worth of coaching.

Yes, you read that right. I no longer offer 1:1. When I stopped, it was $4500 per hour.

I’ll email the winners with the next steps and announce his/her awesomeness to the rest of the interwebs via Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.

For a full list of rules and the legal yawn-fest, click here.

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