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People like us

People like me, who come from less than nothing but a bucket of emotional trauma, aren’t supposed to build 7-figure empires from scratch.

We’re definitely not supposed to do it in our bathrobes, while smoking cigarettes, on camera.

We’re not supposed to make it up as we go.

We’re not supposed to trust our instincts.

We’re not supposed to achieve more than most.

They tell us to follow the plan, listen to the experts, color inside the lines. And god help you if you don’t.

But guess what?

Without the flipping plan, you’re free to do whatever the hell you like.

Want to know how I got here? 

By breaking every goddamn rule. 

To celebrate the fact that I get to do whether TF I want, I’ve decided to invite you to learn how to do the same.

Enter the “Not Another Masterclass (Series),” coming to you May 15 through June 5. I called it that because it’s fairly common in this industry for people to hear “masterclass” and expect a commercial. But my classes aren’t that.

In fact, nothing I do is like other people. And I love it that way.

So, the classes…

There are four, one per week, that look like this:

  1. Leadership YOUR way – May 15 (you are NOT who you think you are)
    We dive into what it looks like to lead on your terms, without frazzle, burnout or going broke. I learned a long time ago that success came from a combination of mindset and strategy – my own strategy that came from my own mindset. It’s an enigma in a paradox and I’m going to untangle it for you now.
  2. Business on your terms – May 22
    Expanding your capacity to receive, but also to give. It’s NOT all on you. But as long as you think it is, you contract. “It’s too much.” “I can’t.” “I don’t know how.” Bullshit. Here’s where I show you how to help yourself open up to what is truly available to you right now. (are you available for what is trying to help you?)
  3. Money in your hands – May 29
    Visibility without apology, without worrying you’re posting “too much” (as if that’s even possible), and without overthinking how someone could possibly be offended. The crap you tell yourself about showing up shapes your content. This is an incredibly important concept.
  4. Serving people YOU choose – June 5
    How tying all of the above together allows you to call in the right clients, while holding some MF boundaries and knowing worth.

Now, listen, I know no one taught you to trust yourself first.

I know we live in a bizarre culture that loves for people like us to fit in.

But sweetheart, none of that makes a profitable business or an impact.

And you do want to make an impact and help people, right?

If you’re ready to make noise, innovate, often go by the seat of your pants and succeed, then this is for you.

If that gets your pulse racing, sign up. You’re my kinda woman.

I can’t wait to see how you lead on your terms. Click the button!

6 Money Mindset Changes You Need to Make Now

When it comes to making money, it’s more about what’s in your head. To be clear, you cannot sit on your ass and manifest $1M. But you can be doing all the right things and still not make the cash because of a belief. I see it all the time.

So what can you do to straighten it out?

Change your thinking. It’s that simple and that hard.

Here are six ways to tweak your money mindset right now.

1. I can be filthy rich

If you start from a point of self-defeat, what do you think you will get?

I’ll never pay it off.

Even if I do, I’ll just rack it up again.

This is impossible.

I’m a failure.

Some people think they’re unworthy of financial success.

Other people think it’s too hard to get there, so they don’t try.

Solution? Be positive, motherfuckers.

Don’t whine, complain or talk badly about your finances.

Focus on the negative and your brain helps you find more negativity.

Want the good shit? Focus on that instead. Your brain will also be more than happy to help you find more reasons to be positive.

2. Good things come to those who get off their ass

A positive attitude is like a lit match. Taking action is the gasoline. You need both, but it’s the fuel that gets shit GOING.

“Good things are happening for me and I am ready for the next step.”

What can you do right now, today, to move toward your goals? Create new packages? Design new social media campaigns? Interact with clients in a forum? Write a value-packed newsletter?

Keep going forward. You cannot fail unless you give up.

3. The Universe has MORE than enough to go around

Some people have this messed up idea that if they are doing well, others are suffering. As though the world doesn’t have enough for everyone? I don’t get it. You doing well doesn’t take anything away from someone else.

Forget for a moment that the U.S. mint prints money every single day. Consider the Law of Attraction: A belief is just a thought you keep thinking.

Want to be broke? Keep thinking about not having money. Keep focusing on debt. Keep worrying about not having enough.

Want to be rich? Think about how much you HAVE. Focus on what IS available. This is what they mean when they say, “Gratitude changes everything.”

Which leads nicely into…

4. Be grateful

Why would the Big U give you anything if you don’t:

1 – Appreciate what you already have?

2 – Manage it?

Nothing will make you feel like more of a success than simply being grateful. Every night for years, I wrote 100 things I was thankful for. Every. Night.

I reminded myself of everything I was blessed with, created space to receive more and showed the Universe I was thankful.

When you need something, look inside.

You are enough. You do enough. You have enough.

5. Act like the rich bitch you are

What would you do today if you knew all your money problems were solved?

How would you respond to client inquiries? Would you be desperate and clingy, practically begging for their business? Or would you lean back and simply tell them what you do, for what price and when?

In business, the difference between people who have money and those who don’t is their ability to relax.

Act like you’re the best in the world at what you do. It changes everything.

6. Be curious

Want to know more about investing? Stocks? Real estate?

Dig deep. Knowledge will never hurt you. But it’s not enough by itself.

Change your mindset about money and the rest will follow.

P.S. Right now, there’s a kickass bundle sale going on with my top 3 bestselling courses on mindset and business-building for women. Go here to check it out.

But don’t wait. The deal is gone on 8/3/22 Midnight ET.

Want to WORK WITH ME?  Get in touch.  Let’s see what type of magic we can make.