They call you too much?
Excellent. You're in the right place.
They've spent years trying to dampen your flames.
Never worked.
You may have shrunk, but the hot coals remain.
FIRESTARTERS is a private mastermind for women whose fire keeps getting mistaken for something it isn't.
This is where you stop hiding it. All of it. Even the part you forgot was in there.
The world misinterprets your fire.
You say the true thing in the room. Somebody calls it aggressive.
You see the problem three steps before anyone else and name it. Somebody calls it bossy.
You know what something's worth and say the number out loud. Somebody calls it cold. Or greedy. Or a lot.
So you learned to brace. Contract. Water it down. Say the true thing a little softer, a little later, a little less. You become less direct, less on purpose, less connected to yourself.
You got so good at hiding your truth and power that most people have no idea what's in there. Maybe you forgot too.
But it's in there. Seething.
And then there are the waters. They love your heat when it serves them. They siphon it to boil their water on you, then make you wrong when they stir the pot and it's too hot. They drain the hell out of you, and you keep feeding a flame for people who can't receive it.
Somebody decided what you could have. How much. How visible. How comfortable. You've been living inside their decision so long, you'd swear it was yours.
It shows up everywhere. You set the price, then drop it before anyone asks. You write the post and go quiet for a month. You say you'll go bigger once things settle down. (Things never settle down.)
Every month you live by someone else's decision is another month it runs your life. That's an expensive tab.
It's keeping you from earning more, showing up the way you want and CHOOSING who to be.
Everybody tried to manage your fire.
You've done the work. Therapy. Coaching. The books, the retreats, the journaling. And a lot of it was about making you easier for THEM.
Soften the delivery. Read the room. Pick your battles. Translation: turn it down.
Even the good work treated your fire like a symptom. Something to understand, regulate, heal. Maybe someday you'd be calm enough to be allowed.
You don't need to be calmer. You need to be hotter and louder.
Pleasing them was never going to free you. It gave you a detailed map of the cage.
Who you are doesn't need one more conversation. It needs to be unleashed.
Six months. Eight women.
Small group. It starts when five seats fill (2 are filled as I type this) and it closes once it starts.
1
Private call with me monthly
Thirty minutes aimed straight at whatever belief is loudest in you that month.
2
Group calls a month
Sixty to ninety minutes, recorded.
24/7
Me on tap
Telegram, Messenger, Skool or email, whichever one you actually check.
"Seemingly 24-hour support (How the hell do you do that? When do you sleep, woman?)" Celeste
6
Months of RebeccaOS
A business team that supports you, yet won't fake it, won't pad it and won't ship slop with your name on it.
18+
Hours of live fuckery
Twelve group calls and six private ones. Hot seats, teaching and the occasional co-working session where we just get shit done.
0
Gratitude journals
Nobody here is going to tell you to choose joy. We're going to have way more fun deciding what you believe instead.
What changes is what runs in your head. What you allow and what you don't. When "people like me aren't allowed that" starts talking, it doesn't get a hearing anymore. It doesn't get examined or understood or worked through. It gets turned away at the door.
You stop operating from needing to be liked. You stop watering yourself down.
You decide your reality. You choose what you believe, and you keep choosing it long after we're done.
Things we don't do.
We don't dig.
You've excavated enough. Knowing where a belief came from is history, not freedom. We start where understanding ends.
We don't test.
You don't run an experiment to see if the new belief holds. You don't collect proof. You decide what you believe, and it's done.
We don't wait for permission.
There's no application form. Filling one out is one more way to sit around waiting for somebody to approve you. You email me. That's it.
We don't put out fires.
We start them.
Nobody here is going to tell you to tone it down, soften the delivery or be easier to swallow. That's what the waters are for.
What you say or do? Who you get to be? Now decided by YOU.
Group calls to help each other, led by me. Private calls go straight at whichever is loudest for you.
01
Permission
Somebody decided who you are was wrong. Fuck that. This goes first because every other belief leans on it.
02
Belonging
The fear that having more costs you your people. Once you’ve given yourself permission, this is the one that tries to drag you back.
03
Asking
Asking is generally not the problem - until you weigh how the crowd might perceive you.
04
Trust
Even if you got it, you’d ruin it. This is the belief that waits until things start working.
05
The cost
The fear that being more is hard, dangerous and scary adds up to a mighty expensive bill. Things you never created, sold, shared. People you never inspired, motivated, rejuvenated.
06
It's YOU, BABY
You run it yourself on whatever belief crawls out next, because one will. I'm there to guide and support. By the end, you don't need me to catch it. You hear it start and you've already decided.
They decided.
I made over $100,000 in 90 days after I worked with Becky. I came to Becky at one of the lowest points in my life. I had no money, no clients, and no real business after trying it on my own for over a year. Her no nonsense approach whipped my mindset into place and I was able to create a business (and life) that I am excited about. Working with Becky has opened doors and opportunities I never imagined. I would definitely work with Becky again - in fact, I still do.
When I came to Becky, I was doing okay... I wasn't showing up fully. I was still hiding. ... I felt like I wasn't 'polished' enough to start attracting the 7-figure clients. I felt I wasn't good enough still. ... The result? My MONTHLY income has gone up from $20K to $50K with just the mindset work and her faith in me. In fact, February, I had my biggest month at $54K and I enrolled a dream client (who happens to be a multi-7 figure business owner). I actually had to stop promoting because I was at capacity. ... All of this happened because of our own Business Dominatrix, Becky Dickson, and I'll be forever grateful. That. is. all.
I was at a $13k a month with zero investments when I started working with her and, within about 3 months, had broken to consistent $20k months, and have increased ever since. The income wasn't the thing that I was grateful for. It was the raw, animalistic rage that came out of me that had held me down for decades that HAS since led me to become the exact version of myself I had dreamed of. If you want the coach who gets the best income results, she's got the street cred. But if that's all you are focused on with working with this woman... You're screwing yourself.
I never did learn how to fit in.
My mother once said showing dogs was for rich people and who did I think I was? So I ended up with the #1 German Shepherd in North America. Because that's who I am.
They all thought I was insane when I clear-cut my property and started a horse rescue. 13 years later, here we are, hosting retreats for women who need to be set free as much as the horses we pull from slaughter.
If I had $1 for every time someone lovingly said, "But you can't do that..." I'd be a billionaire.
But I dimmed and softened my whole life. I quietly rebelled when I thought people weren't looking. I didn't find my voice until 2008, when I started working online and I was my own boss.
About a decade ago, someone created a Facebook group of haters. They literally spent their days cutting me up in there. That one got me. I went dark for about 6 months. But I worked it through with the same tools I'm bringing to Firestarters.
Tell me I can't and I'll shove it down your throat. I never did learn how to fit in. Eventually, I figured out I wasn't supposed to. (Thank the gods.) My job is to help people break free of cages created by others. And I truly cannot if I'm in my own.
I've had seven-figure years. I sold a $300K package to three women in one day.
You have a mission. You were given your "attitude," tenacity, grit and guts because you need them to fulfill said mission. Let's get on with it.
This is for you if
This isn't for you if
$1,500 a month
or
$8,000 paid in full
Email me at becky@rebeccatdickson.com with the subject "Firestarters." Tell me which belief on this page made your face hot. If it's a fit, I'll invite you in.
We start when five of the eight seats fill. You'll get the date as soon as it's set.
Email BeckyIs this therapy?
No. It’s coaching for women who already did the therapy part.
Is this manifestation?
No. Manifestation asks the universe. This asks you.
What if I miss a group call?
Every group call is recorded.
What happens to RebeccaOS after six months?
You can choose to renew if you wish.
Can I join after it starts?
Nope. Each group is fixed. If you miss this one, you wait for the next start date.